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Create a Profile

Create a Profile

Some tips for creating a good profile.

Your profile is where you tell the other members about yourself. You should fill in all the fields about you and your partner. In the free text area you should describe yourselves and your likes and dislikes:

  • Explain who you are looking for
    • Couples, ladies or men
    • The sexuality of the people you want to meet - straights or bisexuals
  • Describe any fantasies you want to explore
  • Set the upper and lower ages of people you want to meet
  • Describe the body shapes you like or dislike.
  • Define any no-go topics or activities

Profiles with an image will get far more responses than profiles without.

Don't use other people photos in your profile, when you meet you will be exposed and your chances of meeting other people will be greatly reduced.

Profiles of VIP members are almost guaranteed to be genuine users, as fakes will not pay a VIP membership fee.

An example of a simple profile:


We are John & Enzokuhle, a curious married couple from Durban looking for other couples and singles who are interested in the Swinging lifestyle.

We are looking for bisexual females and straight males aged from 30 to 50. We are not interested in people under or over these ages, we prefer people who are the correct weight for their height.

We are not interested in activities such as whipping, scat or pissing.

We have lots of fantasies that we want to explore in a safe environment. Please drop us a message describing yourself/yourselves and how you think we could enjoy time together.

One line messages and profiles without a photo will be ignored.

Escorts & Prostitutes

Important: We do not allow adverts from escorts, call girls, prostitutes, working girls or boys.

Our websites are for Swingers, Fetishists, Kinksters all of whom are here for fun. Swingers never charge for sex, nor do they pay. Please report the profile of any user that asks you for money to meet, and we will remove it from the website.